How to Include Your Mom, Grandma, Aunts & Cousins in Your Wedding (Without Losing Your Mind) : A 5 part series!
Okay sis… let’s talk about something real for a sec.
You’re engaged (!!!), your group texts are buzzing, your wedding Pinterest board is thriving—and suddenly, every woman in your family wants to know what they can do to “help.”
Your mom wants to plan the entire menu.
Your aunt has Opinions™ on table linens.
Your cousin is already designing a T-shirt for your bachelorette.
And your grandma? She just wants to be included, even if she has no idea what a wedding hashtag is.
It’s beautiful. It’s emotional. It’s overwhelming AF.
We’re Gabby & Tori—your real-life sister duo and go-to photo and video team! We’ve captured more weddings than we can count, and if there’s one thing we’ve learned? Brides want to honor the women who made them who they are… without turning their planning experience into a family free-for-all.
(Want to see more of our work? Here you, go Sis 😉 https://gabbymorganphotos.com/weddings
And THAT’S why we created this 5-part series, right here on the Hey Sis Hotline.
Wait, What’s the Hey Sis Hotline?
If you’re new here—hi! 👋 The Hey Sis Hotline is our weekly, no-gatekeeping advice column for brides, maids of honor, sisters, and literally anyone trying to survive wedding planning without crying in a parking lot. We’re big believers that planning your wedding should feel personal, joyful, and (dare we say) fun.
We share:
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Big-sis advice that feels like a hug
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Vendor insider tips (because yes, we’ve seen it all)
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Warm, loving honesty when you need someone to tell you, “Babe… you’re doing too much.”
This Series Is for You If:
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You want to include your mom, grandma, aunties, or cousins
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You don’t want to feel micromanaged or overwhelmed
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You wish someone would just tell you what jobs to give them so they feel helpful, not stressful
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You’re obsessed with being thoughtful, but also very into maintaining your peace ✌️
Let’s make this simple. Let’s make it meaningful. Let’s keep it ✨stress-free✨.
Here’s What’s Coming Up:
Part 1: “Mom Magic: How to Involve Your Mom Without the Drama”
We’ll cover how to lovingly loop in your mom (even if she has strong opinions) in a way that makes her feel seen and supported—without handing her the wedding planner hat. Bonus: meaningful gift ideas + perfect wedding day roles.
Part 2: “For the Grandma Who Raised You (Or Just Spoiled You Rotten)”
We’re getting sentimental. From ceremony roles to heirloom moments, we’ll show you how to include your grandma in ways that honor her legacy and let her shine.
Part 3: “Cool Aunt Energy: Give Her a Role She’ll Shine In”
Your aunt is the fun one—and we’re giving her ways to help that don’t step on anyone’s toes. Think: behind-the-scenes planning help, day-of support, and thoughtful thank-yous.
Part 4: “Cousins, Sisters, and Your Built-In Besties”
They might not be in the bridal party—but they’re VIPs. We’ll walk you through how to give them spotlight moments, wedding-week responsibilities, and keepsake gifts that make them feel just as special.
Part 5: “The Wedding Week Plan: Small Tasks That Make a Big Impact”
This is the holy grail of prep help—aka how to actually delegate those last-minute errands, craft night chaos, and day-before emergencies without feeling like a drill sergeant. Plus, our favorite gifts for your inner circle.
TL;DR? We’re Pro-Family and Pro-Boundaries.
This series isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what matters.
It’s about making space for the women who helped raise you, hype you up, and shaped your story—without sacrificing your sanity in the process.
So grab a cozy drink, bookmark this series, and get ready to plan a wedding that honors your whole fam and keeps you grounded in what matters most.
👯♀️ Sister duo capturing wedding photo + video with heart
💌 Have questions? The [Hey Sis Hotline] is always open.
✨ Ready to start Part 1? [Click next to dive into the Mom Magic.]
