For the Grandma Who Raised You (Or Just Spoiled You Rotten) : (Part 2 of 5)

If there’s one thing we’ll always say yes to, it’s including your grandma in your wedding day magic. Whether she helped raise you, let you lick every spoon growing up, or simply showed up with love and warmth your whole life—she deserves a front-row seat in this chapter of your story.

Weddings are about legacy. And if you’re lucky enough to have your grandma around, weaving her into your celebration is one of the most heartfelt ways to honor where you came from and how deeply you’re loved! Some of our favorite moments on wedding days are getting to watch the bride and grooms grandparents throughout the day. 🤍

Wedding Roles for Grandma:

Let her shine in the spotlight with a role that feels joyful and easy:

• Flower Grandma (yes, it’s real, and it will steal the show!)

• Ring Bearer Assistant – especially if you have a little one carrying the rings

• Guestbook Greeter – give her a cozy seat and a sweet job

• Special Reading during the ceremony – especially if it’s a family blessing or scripture

• Marriage License Witness – official and unforgettable

• Pre-processional – have her walk down the aisle before your bridal party to open the ceremony with grace

Pre-Wedding Moments to Treasure:

• Invite her to your bridal shower and let her share a toast or special memory about love and marriage

• During your getting ready time, set aside a moment to gift her something personal (a necklace, a handkerchief, or even just a long hug and a handwritten note)

• Record a video interview of her giving you marriage advice or telling the story of her own wedding day

Big-Sis Tip: These recorded moments become generational treasures. If you can, include them in your wedding video or save them in a keepsake box for your future family.

Sentimental Wedding Gift Ideas for Grandma:

• A corsage made from lace from her wedding dress

• A side-by-side framed photo of her on her wedding day and you on yours

• A scrapbook or memory box of the two of you through the years

• A soft shawl or quilt embroidered with your wedding date and a sweet message

• A custom recipe tea towel of her signature dish

Heirloom Ideas:

Ask her if there’s something meaningful she wants to pass on—a ring, a necklace, a rosary, a recipe, or even a handkerchief. Let her see it woven into your wedding day—your bouquet wrap, your jewelry stack, or framed in a display.

Hey Sis Hotline Idea : If you’re serving a family recipe, feature it with a printed sign like “Grandma June’s Famous Apple Pie” or “Nonna’s Meatballs.” Watch her face light up.

Pro Tip: If your grandma can’t physically attend, bring her to your day through a video call, a reserved seat with a framed photo, or a bouquet charm with her picture. Presence is more than physical—it’s about intentional love.

Your grandma has poured so much into you. Give her space in this day to feel that it’s hers too.

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