Cool Aunt Energy – Give Her a Role in the Wedding She’ll Shine In : (Part 3 of 5)

Aunts are the unsung heroes of our lives—the ones who show up with wisdom and snacks, who know how to keep a secret, offer the perfect advice, and tell stories about your childhood that make everyone laugh. If you’re lucky enough to have a cool aunt (or two or three), your wedding day is the perfect time to let her shine.

Whether she’s been a second mom, your family’s fashion icon, or just the person who taught you how to dance at family reunions, she deserves a role that shows her how loved and appreciated she is.

Wedding Planning Jobs for Aunts:

Give her meaningful ways to contribute without overwhelming her—or you:

• Co-host your engagement party or bridal shower

• Be your second opinion queen for outfits and accessories

• Curate a wedding day emergency kit for you and your bridesmaids (trust us, she’ll think of things no one else will!)

• Help craft or preserve family traditions—like printing family recipes, writing down blessings, or gathering photos for a memory table

• Help communicate with extended family members to relay updates and save you some group-text chaos

Inside Scoop: Aunts are amazing at bridging gaps between generations. Let her help navigate family dynamics—she’ll keep the peace, the laughs, and the champagne flowing.

Wedding Day Tasks:

• Coordinate with vendors while you’re getting ready (especially if you don’t have a planner)

• Be the snack runner and hydration queen for the bridal suite

• Help manage the gift and card table during the reception

• Escort or assist elderly family members and keep them comfortable

• Be your “invisible fixer” for anything unexpected (ripped hem, dress tape emergency, missing seating card—you name it!)

Big-Sis Tip: Aunts are the best undercover superheroes. Give her a fancy title like “Aunt of Honor” or “Bridal Bestie,” and let her know how much you trust her to be your behind-the-scenes go-to.

Thoughtful Gift Ideas:

• A custom candle with a note that says "You kept me calm when I wanted to scream"

• A keepsake wine glass or mug that says “Cool Aunt Club: Founding Member”

• A charm necklace with initials of you and your partner or your wedding date

• A handwritten letter tucked into a photo frame of you two from when you were little

Hey Sis Hotline Idea: If you’re doing a first look with your mom or dad—why not do one with your aunt too? Especially if she’s been a big part of raising or mentoring you. The photos (and emotions) will be priceless.

Let your aunt know she’s more than just an invited guest—she’s a core part of your story. And when you give her a role that plays to her strengths, you’ll create space for joy, connection, and memories that last long past the bouquet toss!

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